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Report
of EU youth exchange visit with Mountmellick
Dev Assoc Oct 2010
Background
From Sat 23rd until Monday 25th October Billingshurst
Community Partnership hosted a group of 10 young
people from Mountmellick Co Laois Ireland. The
group, who are from similar social and economic
backgrounds to the group we are working with
in Billingshurst, range from ages 15 to 19 years
old.
This was the first time the two groups had
met. The Billingshurst young people, (8 in total
– 6 boys and 2 girls), decided upon the
week end activities based on what the Irish
group had asked to do. As hosts, the Billingshurst
group were expected to help prepare the meal
for Saturday Lunchtime, chaperone their visitors
around Billingshurst and generally engage with
them to establish what the differences between
being a teenager in Billingshurst and being
a teenager in Mountmellick might mean.
Expected
Outcomes (from a Leaders perspective)
Prior to the visit, we had as a group, discussed
any concerns they might have had. These centred
mainly round not being able to understand them
because of different accents, and the Irish
people’s expectations / pre conceived
ideas about them.
Engaging with complete strangers could be quite
un- nerving for our group despite the fact that
they are rather boisterous and noisy when they
are together as a group. Their lack of social
and verbal skills would be apparent and despite
their bravado they would find meeting new people
quite difficult initially especially the Lunch
time meal where Parish, District and County
Councillors were present.
Actual Outcomes (from a Leaders Perspective)
We where pleasantly surprised how they organised
themselves and really got into the spirit of
preparing a meal for 30 people. They genuinely
wanted to do their best and impress!
As the arrival of our Irish guests became closer,
so their anxiety levels rose. Once they met,
there was the usual posturing and performing
that goes on with teenagers, but soon after
they were engaging is the normal way.
The two groups didn’t engage much at the
Fireworks display at Jubilee Fields (Saturday
evening).
The trip to London was overall very successful
(Sunday 24th). Our biggest fear was that some
of them would decide to “go off and do
their own thing”; a worry that didn’t
materialise as they all behaved well overall.
Portsmouth Naval Dockyards and the Victory
(Mon 25th) had mixed reviews. Some of the young
people took a great deal of time looking round
the Victory and were genuinely interested. Others
didn’t see the point. The latter group
were relieved to be allowed to go shopping in
Gun Wharf Quays after the Victory tour. Others
explored the Naval Dockyards. This was a short
day as the Irish group had to be back at Gatwick
for their return flight for 4.30pm.
We where very pleased that the Billlingshurst
group, (who had to leave the train first), were
very polite in their farewell gestures –
taking time to shake hands with all members
of the Irish party.
De-briefing / evaluation from the Young People
Things they liked best about the weekend:
Things they liked least:
What they learnt from the week end:
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The Irish are far more aware of religious
differences (At one stage I was asked by
one of our boys whether he was Catholic
or Protestant – a fact that the Irish
– adults included – found extraordinary
he didn’t know).
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The fact that the problems young people
face in Ireland are the same as those affecting
them in Billingshurst. (Boredom, not enough
to do, negative adults etc).
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That the Irish have stricter up-bringing.
More influences from extended family ties
and friends.
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